Could Grindr in his search history be a fluke?

Well, ex. We broke up over Thanksgiving. But prior to, as I was sitting beside him on the couch he had his search bar open and Grindr was there. That is all I saw, recent searches: Grindr.com, along with a few other innocuous things he had recently searched. I never said anything or asked him about it. Frankly he has a temper so I didn't want to. He also posts REALLY awful things about women on his X account. Especially "western women". Calls them trash, cnts, hormonal, whres, unsuitable for marraige, demons, etc etc. Follows a lot of MGTOW (men go their own way) pages too. He had bad trauma regarding his biological mother and other women growing up. And despite 20 years of off and on between us, refused to talk to me about marraige or our future. Always blamed me for why we weren't married. Cited I wanted a big wedding and fancy ring. Literally neither of those were true. I have two friends and basically no family. Big wedding isn't even feasible if I did want one. I finally called it quits due to some holiday chaos on his end. And I am a broken mess from it all. Psychologically so twisted up and confused. I truly love this man but I am tired.

Men, any input on what all of that together means? The awful posts, Grindr, mgtow following, lack of commitment, bad temper, low sex drive, etc. Heart break does some weird things to our thought processes and I don't know up from down right now.