East Asian Woman supporting Brown Woman here

I saw some interesting thread the other day, and I just wanted to correct the idea that East Asian woman or South East Asian women are somehow more "permitted to date outside the race by Asian men" more than south Asian woman.

Asian men after all invented the fake "Oxford study" insult as a way to degrade any Asian woman who dates outside the race, especially targeting Asian women who date white men with more progressive ideology than Asian men. I have been attacked on my Instagram until I had to private my account. To this day, my feminist comments from last year on Instagram criticising conservative Asian men still have men angrily insulting me. So no, we are not more free, our chains are the same, they just look a little different.

I stand with brown women, because your struggle is my struggle. But never wish to be in our shoes, because our shoes are very painful just like yours. Reminder that Chinese men after all, invented foot binding and only took it away to look good in front of their white male friends. Reminder that conservative Confucianism has dictated how women should serve their husbands for thousands of years. Reminder that Asian leaders merely view Asian women as workers and wombs.

When I see brown women, I see great women held back by conservatism, purity/rape culture, class, colonialism and misogyny. You are great, never let anyone tell you to be small. And you will always find a friend in me.