The tower as feelings

I just wanted an opinion on this.Everytime I do a reading on this guy and ask how he feels about me ,I always and I mean always, get the tower ,and also cards like 5 of pentacles,5 of cups or swords.But when I ask how he views me I’ll always get something more positive like 10 of pentacles and queen of cups… or what he is thinking about me ,it’s usually knight of cups or wands.It’s confusing.The situation between us is complicated,we’re not together and probably never will be,but there’s still something there,unfortunately.We’re both too similar and too emotionally unavailable.I just wanted an opinion,cause damn the tower is a heavy card ,and I’ve never really done anything to hurt his feelings ,so I don’t get why it would be this negative