Birthday Vent

Todays my birthday. Turned 60. Social media friends and associates pinging Happy birthday. My spouse of 19 years, a mumbled semi-cohearant happy birthday as I left for work this morning. Come home only to find her friend now staying with us after another drama fueled fallout with her "partner". No card, no attempt at a gift, nothing. But why should I be surprised as my birthday gets scarcely noticed by her. Meanwhile I do my best to see she has some sort of birthday celebration.