35 [M4F] #Boston #MA #Northeast #Online - looking for discreet and meaningful relationship

Hi - I don't know how I got to this point, but yes I'm on Reddit looking for an AP. I'm a first timer. I am in a dead bedroom situation, but the rest of my life I am committed to and invested in. I'm 35 M, greater Boston area (in the burbs). I have kids and a life I will not be leaving behind - also because my wife and I are committed to our family staying together.

That all being said, we both recognize the dead bedroom and agreed to seek out FWBs and generally just fill the void in our relationship through whatever means. We have a DADT arrangement, but for everyone's sake, discretion is important and a non-negotiable.

I take opsec very seriously - and ideally looking for someone who is in the same situation as me. I'm looking for F in a similar age range and local. I'm looking for a deeper connection and ideally we can be friends.

Physically, I'm about 5'5, in decent shape, have a beard. I listen to lots of music. I like food and nerdy things.

I would really like to meet someone on here, but also am trying to be realistic. Bots, scammers, cat fishers, etc. It is truly wishful thinking. I would like to give it a shot. Now let's see if we can be compatible! Thanks and hope I hear from you!