Is it normal that sex only hurts with my husband 28M/ 28F???

Hello ladies!!

I’m a Middle Eastern 28F woman… I know, I know, I don’t need to say that, but it’s related to what I want to talk about.

So, I’ve been with my now-husband 28M for 10 years. We were boyfriend/girlfriend for a long time, then got married. During our on-and-off phases, I dated other 34 M and 26M guys. But here’s the part that’s confusing me: whenever I have sexual intercourse with my husband, it always burns or hurts. This has been happening for 10 years. But when I was with other guys, this never happened.

Also… I love being eaten, but whenever my husband does it, he uses tissues to clean me while doing it. Like… I don’t know if this is normal or not? It makes me feel weird. And whenever I have discharge, he makes faces or acts disgusted.

Can someone please help me understand what’s going on?

Posted Jan 14, 2026, 3:02 AM UTC

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