29 [m4f] Croatia/Europe - Thoughtful and introspective man, looking for something simple and meaningful with someone open and active.

M4F

It's my first time putting myself out there in this form, which means something.

I'm a 29-year old man, born and living on the coast of Croatia. I spend most of the year working in tourism and living in pretty places. During the off-season, I rest my head at my parents' apartment. Some day, it'll be mine. Otherwise, I am not caught up in money, the material, and life-engulfing careers. I have enough, and seek someone with similarly free ambition.

I'm 183cm/6ft tall, and not unfit, but I'm not fit either, just slim. I used to work out every day, to go with sports like boxing and basketball, until I caught a few chronic injuries. I try to keep a semblance of shape, and am easy on the eyes, but I'm not fit anymore. I don't care if you're fit, but I'm not attracted to plus-sized ladies. I alternate between shaved head and medium hair on a whim, as well as a short or medium beard, but never clean-shaven. I have three tattoos on my left forearm, and wish to have many more.

I'm looking for someone my age or younger. I don't mind a bit of distance, so long as there is effort to eliminate it some day. I'm looking for something life-long, and very intimate, though I appreciate friendships and talks if that's all you find for yourself here.

I've had a fun, interesting and somewhat rougher youth. It was carefree hangouts, smoking with friends and gaming, but, I won't lie - there were rough times, and I have a rough streak. A few fights, spot of crime unpunished, what have you. I wasn't uncouth, it just interested me. Being good felt like a solved game.

To contrast that, I am refined in manners when it matters. I am gentlemanly, and treat everyone with the dignity their life should afford. I respect rights and liberties, and do my utmost to enforce them. I lean progressive and liberal, and I am willing to fight for that liberty - yours as well as mine. I embody both sides of life, low and high, rough and fine. I've been there, I've seen it, I've lived it. Highest peaks and rock-bottom.

I'm open and communicative. High school opened me up after an introverted childhood, and it kept rolling. I'm quick to make friends, though I pick very carefully. I can talk about anything at length, and I love to.

I used to be outgoing in terms of dating, but some hurts did me in, and I lost courage. I've been single for over 3 years now, with little dating in between. Regardless, I deeply enjoy meaningful conversation, a warm touch, and many of the things that we reminisce on later in life. I like to be very physical, very often.

My hobbies are simple. I like walks and hikes into nature. I love driving, and music is mandatory, in which I've a colourful palate. I like collecting records as well. I play videogames. I also meditate, and keep to basic physical fitness as well. I love pets, though I've none at the moment.

There's so much more to say, but I think this condenses me, and who I seek, well enough. I remain at your disposal any time, if I interest you. :)

Posted Jan 14, 2026, 3:05 AM UTC · locked

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