I just feel like my mom kinda takes it a certain way an gets riled up real easy. when I feel like I try an speak up or state facts about certain things it’s an automatic argument w/ her an I don’t try an argue with her I really don’t. So I live with my mom 25F still an 3 other people so a total of 5 grown people in the house I feel like we should all clean an keep up with the dishes. I’m a tidy person I like things to be clean an put things right back.
2 weeks ago the dishes were all used and piled up sitting on the counter just dirty no one wash them an before yall say “why didnt you” I didn’t clean them to see how long it’ll be before someone washes them. I feel like I’ve been washing the dishes for everyone in the house an that’s a lot of dishes no one washes them but me on the weekends during the week an it’s frustrates me that no one washes their dishes so that why it piles up. 2 weeks dishes were sitting there so I said man let just wash them already. I washed them this past Sunday not only did I was the dishes I deep cleaned the kitchen to organizing the pantry to mopping to cleaning the stove. Sunday through today there it goes again dirty dishes just sitting there an I’ve been washing them since Sunday every day. I got annoyed cause I see my mom dishes sitting on the table just sitting there which made me text her. I just feel like she can take a few minutes out of her day to wash her dishes I come home and wash dishes while she’s already home. It’s just this is the same women my mom that complains about how her house is always dirty but yet she doesn’t clean up after herself ! so that’s why I help an clean for my sake of mind and for hers but I feel like she lacks appreciation sometimes.. cause like I said no one cleans the kitchen & washes their dishes until I step in. By her not having any washcloths to clean  she doesn’t wash them when there is a whole sponge I just opened Sunday an that’s not good enough for her to do the chore. Me and her both Prefer different things to wash dishes fine no problem I can use both but it’s like she can only use one an if not she’s not doing it. 
I’m open to opinions I feel like I’m not the problem but if I am than I am I just wanna know from your pov on why you think I’m wrong. 

I hate when my mom talks to me like this. Am I the problem?