34 [M4F] #NewYork #Online - Dom Seeking Cutie Pie for Cuddles, Edging, and Denial

Hey there reddit! 34-year-old man here, and I'm looking to form a short or longterm relationship with a likeminded sub. You can find my kinklist posted down below⏤that is where all the good stuff is after all⏤but I've included a little bit about myself and my kinky interests to provide a little more depth for you. I live in New York (not the city) and ideally you would as well, but if you live in or around the northeast then that's something we can work around. I'm also open to an online relationship for those of you who live a bit too far away but still think they might be a good fit with me, and we could talk about who moves where if/when we get to that point. If you think we could get along both inside and outside of the bedroom, message me with a little about yourself and your kinks, and I'll try to get back to you as soon as I can. :)

So a little bit about myself, I'm 34, white, 5'7", and thin. As far as my type, I'm looking for someone who has an infectious energy between the ages of 18-27, about 4'10"-5'3" tall, and about 90-130 lbs. These aren't strict limits, just my preferences, so if you're close enough then that's perfectly fine. I do work particularly well with new or inexperienced subs as I can be gentle yet stern, but I'm open to any type of experience level. I'm a full time student currently. I have a bunch of tattoos and some piercings, so if that's not your thing then sorry to disappoint. I love music and film. My favorite genre of music is alt/punk rock, while my favorite film genre is dramedy. I also love comics, manga, anime, and video games. I'm definitely a huge nerd in that regard, and always wish there was just more time to read and watch all of the amazing stuff out there. I'm a very laid back person, and certainly very introverted. Not that I'm a quiet person, just I generally enjoy being around smaller groups of people. I am certainly up for going out though, whether it's clubs or the beach or hiking. Also I'm vaccinated and I fully expect you will be vaccinated as well.

While I'm looking for a relationship I do think that starting out as friends and seeing how things progress from there is always the best approach. I can be very clingy and always wanting to play with my sub, and I really enjoy a partner who clings to me as well. I want to find something where we feel a shared desire for one another and want to be around each other all the time. Not that I don't enjoy having time for myself (I like to game and read and whatnot), or that I wouldn't want to give you your own space, but I just like the type of relationship where we're the first and last thing we think of every day (and also that we keep you helplessly horny all throughout the day 😈) At the end of the day, a wholesome d/s relationship out of the bedroom is exactly what I want.

As a dom I tend to be very strict as I expect you to listen and obey my orders, although I do like some bratty push back from my subs (especially in a role play or cnc type scene). And that doesn't mean I expect you to be a mindless slave or anything like that, in fact I encourage you to be silly. Playfulness is one of my favorite qualities in a person. I also would consider myself to be very understanding and gentle, particularly to start. It is very difficult to submit, to give yourself up to someone fully and trust them to keep you safe, and so I take that very seriously. I'll always communicate with my sub and make sure they're feeling safe and happy in a scene, and that we're both able to find the utmost fulfillment out of our sex life. I hope you're interested in what you've read so far, and that I get to hear from you soon!

Kinklist

Favorites: Tease and denial, edging, orgasm control, ruined orgasms, forced orgasms, exhibitionism, aftercare, cuddles, kissing, holding hands

Like: Ass spanking, pussy spanking, role play, bondage, cock worship, cum sluts, anal, CNC, free use, long-distance vibrator, ageplay, pet play

Limits: Watersports, blood, gore, vore, scat, extreme pain, abdl