I ghosted someone for the first time…

I know I’m gonna get a lot of hate for this. I 29M recently was talking to someone 29-30F and was planning a date with her. I was overwhelmed with emotions in the past couple of days going through a depressive state cause of work (losing hours etc). I setup a date with her for Saturday and have not messaged her since last Sunday. I’m pretty sure she blocked my number since I usually message her in the morning. We have never met and were just casually talking. I’ve been single for over 5 years now and she seemed really untrustworthy cause she asked me if I’ve been on any dates recently (she was on Facebook dating and saw that my profile was active but she was also on there which was odd, long story short I matched with an old friend and was wanting to make amends for something that happened years ago). Is it even worth it to try and message her or should I just move on as I have.

Posted Jan 14, 2026, 3:07 AM UTC

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