F23 [F4M] #California/USA

Hi I'm F23 from California. I am looking for a long term relationship. The age range I feel comfortable with dating are 21-34. Please do not message me if you are younger or older. You will be ignored or blocked. I am an introvert (INTJ) if you are into Myers Briggs typing. I do think typing is pretty interesting. Looks wise I am white, short brown hair, 5'3", plus sized (3xl) I am working on loosing weight, style wise I lean more alt/emo, I have two tattoos planning on getting more. Politically I lean left but mostly center. Spirituality is very personal to me. I do read tarot and I like to learn about astrology. I suppose you could call me a witch lol. So if that sort of thing scares you please don't message me. Types of guys I like are other artists, creatives, introverts obviously LOL but leaning more intuitive (feeling (F) in the typing). INFJs, INFPs, ISFJs, ISFPs, nerdy people PLEASE info dump about your favorite movie, tv show, book, musician, history, artist, influencer, etc. I love learning about people's interests. Even if it's not something I'm actively interested in. I am a Gemini moon/North node so I love yapping but I really do like listening to other people's interests/stories. That being said I really need someone that can keep a conversation. Especially over the phone. I'm just going to be honest if you aren't great at keeping a conversation I'm probably going to get bored of you quickly and loose interest. Also another thing I'll put out there is I'm not here to rush into a relationship. I really want to get to know people first before committing! So please keep that in mind. I also view it as a red flag going too fast soooooo check yourself before you reck yourself 😭 I'm really tired of men online getting to know someone for a week and having the audacity to be like I have all these feelings for you, just to want not safe for work photos.. 💀 I have been through this several times and it's very..... disheartening. I knowww I should have not entertained those people but loneliness makes you do dumb things sometimes :/

Favorite media genres: sci-fi, fantasy, action/adventure, horror, and comedy.

Favorite music genres: 90s grunge, 80s new wave, hyperpop, hip-hop, rap, trip-hop, edm, elctro-pop.

That's pretty much it. Message me if you want. Xx.

Posted Jan 14, 2026, 3:07 AM UTC

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