WIBTAH for breaking up with my partner of 6 years because he’s too introverted?
My(28f) partner(28m) and I are currently having relationship issues. We have been together for 6, almost 7 years.
When we started dating, we both heavily played games, had terrible sleeping schedules and spent all our time at home, watching twitch streams. After Covid, I got a full time job, sold my pc and stopped gaming. Over the years, I have stepped out of my comfort zone and started to go to zoos, concerts, the cinema, etc.
My partner hates all of that. He thinking seeing movies in the cinema is “cringe”. He would “rather die” than go to dinner.
I was fine with that. My biggest issue is, I have friends that I can do all of this with, however he gets upset when I do. He makes fun of my friends, tells me to just stay home, etc.
6 years ago, we were the same level of introverted, but as I’m getting older, I’m finding I’m not introverted at all.
I want to travel, try new things, meet new people. I hate feeling like I’m doing something wrong by making plans without him or trying to force him to do things he doesn’t want to.
Will I be the asshole?
Posted Jan 14, 2026, 3:15 AM UTC