32 [M4F] big tall guy looking for consistent fwb

Hey im looking for a consistent fwb whos in or around Seattle i can host and also travel. I work alot and really could use a good stress reliever on my days off or at night. I am 6'4 320 lbs i lift weights and have some chub. Im a soft dom who likes pet play and is also ddf. Down to vibe check over coffee or at a bar whatever you prefer. Ideally under 40 and experienced is not a requirement. Please no cd/sissy but trans ok