hey so im very confused about the kim chat system specifclly with roathe

so like i talked with him alot but there are 2 things one i cant talk with him anymore it says anathema and an impass with roathe ill get the direct quote "i think im at an impass with roathe i cannot go any farther unless i disobey his orders not to go farther in his meories aka descdndia" and then there is this one "ive done something to either upset roathe or ive run out of opertunities to move forward with him unvoftunitly there is only one way forward to go now" it happend the day after i started dating him is that all there is or what im a semi new player here and never did much with the kim system please help