Guys should I go back to him

Guys I miss my man should I wait and hire an Etsy witch and wait for him to get obsessed with me then go back? I miss him a lot and I’m hoping he’s thinking of me. All my friends hate him and say to never go back and especially after ripping up all his clothes I don’t know if he would go back to me. I think he genuinely hates me. Hoping this spell works🙏🏾