Infidelity in the Air Force Reserve?

I’m sorry to me that person but my spouse has a history of infidelity anytime they’re partying and traveling.

They want to join the Air Force Reserve. My understanding is that BMT is structured and their weekends will be at the local base in our city (we live by one) but what about tech school and the yearly tour? I heard about the wingman/wingwoman but not sure if it works.

(I don’t want to talk about the infidelity itself - it’s important to note we’ve been married for years and not a military marriage or family in anyway)