I think being scared is holding me back!!

I feel like if it happens just once, I’ll know how she reacts to pre-ejacs. But what if she loves it and wants it all the time? Can I pre-ejac when she wants me to? Or, on the flip side, what if from that point on I just become someone who finishes too quickly and can no longer last until she tells me she’s ready for me to cum?

I feel like I just need to get this out. I’d really like to know what to do—from both a male and a female perspective.

There have been times when I cum pretty quickly with her. She says, “Wow, I must have really turned you on.” I tell her, “Of course you do.” I just want to be even quicker.

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