INTP and ESTJ Long Term Compatibility (like married or smth)

Logically... I think estj is the best fit for me for my wife. If feelings over thinking it can create tension easily if paired to me because i cant really handle people too empathetic focused and illogical, im not saying most them are illogical but they value feelings over logic. I need someome more structured, Judging factor because if paired with another P, our house will look like a barn, i sometimes even forgot to shower. I prefer sensing more than instuitive, because they are more likely to execute. Extraverted because if paired with another introvert, we might distance from eachother alot without intention.

Basically this dynamics are

Estj = execute

Intp = idea guy

to be specific ESTJ 8w9 sp/so

a healthy one ofc

im an INTP 5w4 sp/sx btw

im an introverted person so that makes me think in the future my work environment is probably isolated like making videos or smth. im hopefully going to university but probably wont make many connections, so its pretty rare to find an estj with the environment im in.

what do you guys think of the pairing?

how do you think we could potentially come across together and notice eachother?