Height

Hi 💜

This is a little scary to post, but I’m hoping for honesty and kindness. I’m 4’11, slightly femme, and my height is something I feel really insecure about sometimes. I know it might sound small (no pun intended), but it’s one of those things that can make me feel less attractive or less…desirable???

I’m really drawn to taller women (which isn’t exactly hard when you’re my height), but I sometimes struggle with this quiet fear that my body just isn’t desired in the way I want it to be due to my height. Like I’ll be appreciated in a “cute” way, but not actually wanted or chosen romantically or sexually.

Being short and femme can sometimes make me feel easy to overlook, or like I don’t quite register as someone people pursue.

If you’re comfortable sharing, how do you honestly feel about very short women? And if you’re short too, how have you learned to feel okay in your body? I’d really appreciate hearing from others.

Thank you for being gentle 🤍