Sex advice ! Please give me all your gory details bottom 4 bottom edition

Hello,

When my partner and I got together, we had a pretty clear top and bottom dynamic, me being the bottom. Now that she has been transitioning she does not think she is a top any longer. To define for you what top and bottom mean to me, I consider the top the one penetrating and the bottom the one being penetrated. Things like oral I view as both tops and bottoms participating in(tops eating someone out and bottoms sucking their tops off). I tell you this to give you the framework from which I am coming from. However I come asking for advice, any and all advice that you are willing to give: what ways should we explore sexual connection in ways that feel comfortable for both of us?

You may be thinking, just talk to her! I have, and she doesn’t really know what she is into which doesn’t give me a good frame work. I am mainly just into being penetrated but am willing to do things my partner likes.

I don’t know if it is relevant but my partner is a trans woman and I am non binary, mainly androgynous but lean a little trans masculine.

So please if you have any advice give me all the raw gory stories and positions or toys to try etc. most of advice I’ve seen hasn’t been very detailed so it’s hard to envision in my mind. I want to expand my definition of sex and would love help in doing so.

If you’ve read this far thank you for your time, and I look forward to the suggestions!