Dating advice

27 AMAB, I've been struggling with my identity lately and dating feels even harder than before. I really like getting to know women but always felt a little disconnected and self conscious when it came to initiating physical intimacy. I haven't been able to form many long term relationships because of that. Now that I've started questioning if I'm a woman I feel guilty for wanting to date women. My best friends are lesbian and I feel invasive, like it's wrong for me to want that. Did anyone else feel this way and what helped?