Is it too much to want sex when you are 51M?

The bedroom has been dead for a few years now. I bring it up and she always says she knows and laughs it off. I really wish I had someone local to talk to about all this. It's one thing to talk to people online.

It's odd. I'm in Pittsburgh PA which isn't a small town, so I imagine there must be lots of men and women in my situation. But we all keep it to ourselves, there is no support group for this kinda thing.