Teasing issues

I'm so sorry if this isn't allowed here.

My wife is ace but we do have a fairly active life in the bedroom. I am hyper sexual myself so regulating our differences has always been a balancing act. Lately she teases me all evening (touching, kissing, talking mad game) then backs off immediately when we get to a place we could act on things. I understand moods can shift but I'm so hot and bothered by her advances and the rejection feels really terrible when it happens. I'm just laying here trying not to cry while she's passed out asleep after messing with me all night. I feel disgusted with myself for being upset. I want to respect her and I feel like the problem for not being able to just let it go when she does this.

Anyone else have this type of thing happen? How do you approach it? I told her tonight to stop messing with me if she didn't intend to finish it but she kept going and we even ended up taking a bath together to freshen up and then she just went to sleep. I'm so confused.