Update on the "gym bro" I'm crushing on!!
Okay so a long awaited update on the "gym bro" I'm crushing on!! First of all, holy shit I did not expect the previous post to blow up like that, and thank you so much for all the advice🙏🫶. However, the amount of mixed opinions all you guys had was kinda making me anxious about the entire situation, so I did try not doing anything impulsive and took things slow.
Now for the real tea, I actually ended up getting sick in like the 2nd week of Jan, and alot has been going on with work/studies tbh. But I did go out with the dude to a bowling alley and also watch a movie after New Year, which was super fun and we had a really great time. As expected, he was very affectionate and lowkey flirty, but I did try to keep it cool and lowkey not out myself, cause what if he was straight all along. He also did drop me off by my apartment, and I invited him to stay at my place for a few mins before he left.
Few days after, I started having sharp pains in my abdomen and turns out it was fucking Appendicitis (Please don't bite your nails and end up being like me🙏). I did the operation, and I am feeling better now but I am not allowed to workout for a few more weeks. With all this stuff, I didn't really have the time to talk to my gym bro and he kept texting me a few days ago asking if I was okay. Apparently he had been worried that I ghosted him after our hangout, especially since I was not at the gym for around 2 weeks now. I had a long chat with him and he was relieved that I was okay and that he was not ghosted by me. He insists on staying over at my place for some time until I get better😭. I guess I'm gonna get a husband anytime soon with the way how this is going.
Posted Jan 25, 2026, 12:19 PM UTC