first time—with a toy or the real thing?

would my first time be better with a dildo or a real dih?? been reading similar entries about this and have seen pros for dildos (aka self-exploration) and a real dick (sensation + physical connection/intimacy) so irdk if i should just wait for a partner to share my first time with or just go explore myself with my dildos nalang ba 🥲

this question is mainly for the ladies, but guys can offer their insights too!