I have a friend group and we make videos... But I am probably the most unfunny least entertaining person in the group. What should I do?
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I will not be linking my channel for privacy sakes and to avoid self promotion thats very unnessecary for this reddit.
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I know I just made a post but this is a very different topic that I also am seeking a question for.
So yeah, we have a group. Weve bounced from streaming to youtube, and we arent a very big group at all whatsoever, but we have fun. Theres like 8 of us. And we all make our own vids and upload to the same channel, but an issue I have come across is that I am not funny, im not charismatic, im not entertaining, and most certainly I'm not good at anything in particular. My editing is bland and my video ideas are often very boring to most. And this isnt something ive conjured up, this is years of people giving me feedback.
I did start and organize this group... and Im very good at getting everyone together and scheduling our events, streams, and recordings, but thats about it... And ultimately the group often doesnt like when I organize or schedule people. Theyd rather just do things in the spur of the moment. Which thats their choice but... I feel like my purpose is kinda diminished even with the one thing im good at.
So should I just... give it up? I think I might just not be naturally cut out for this stuff, no matter how hard I try. Honestly I think this whole ordeal has had a negative impact on my self-esteem because of my inability to fit in.
(I do have a real job btw and a career im building. All this was on the side)
Posted Jan 25, 2026, 12:23 PM UTC