Life hack on how to keep the bad ones away!
Pre-requisite: you have to believe in universe or something, someone who is out there, all knowing and looking after your well being!
I have two problems: anxious attachment issue (I notice the change in behaviour very quickly even if I don’t point it out) and I don’t tend to see bad in people. Like I believe that why will anyone try to harm you, emotionally? Isn’t everyone just want their person, someone they can love and receive the same? Why will they be okay to manipulate someone into loving them?
I mean I am dumb or naive enough to believe men when they say “I am the most beautiful person they have been out with” and then ghost me 3 days later.
So I took a nice advice from an influencer, she said, every time she would feel that she is getting attached to someone she isn’t sure about, she would pray to the universe, that hey universe, if this isn’t the right person for me, please take him away!
And the guy vanishes within a week from her life. So I do the same and I SWEAR it works like magic!
Give it a shot
Posted Jan 25, 2026, 12:27 PM UTC