Serial accuser Calina Guzman

My name is Nick. I'm from Victoria BC Canada. I need to start by acknowledging I am not a perfect man but I try my best every day to do what's right. I grew up in an unhealthy home and learned to survive on my own. I have a past I'm not proud of but I left it behind 20 years ago and slowly started finding my way to a better life and becoming a better person. That I am proud of. When my first son was born almost 18 years ago he gave me the light to follow out of the storm.

At 49 I met Calina, now Calina Guzman and we were married 6 months later. I began to notice she had anger issues. I had anger issues also so I understood why she would get angry so quickly and we would try to talk about it. We tried counseling for our issues but I began to notice she was not being honest with our counselor. In time I began noticing signs of hidden drug use. I come from a world that taught me to see these things and a heightened sense of awareness of people. But I always trust first because I don't want my past to win and break me of trying to be a better person.

In time she became more hostile in our arguments and started becoming physically violent. I was raised to take a beating so I thought I could power through to a better day. I studied and learned what was happening in our relationship, being criticized as a man constantly, being baited into anger and blamed for my reactions. I know I'm not a perfect man so I tried to do the work we talked about to be better. In time I saw the goal posts kept moving and I started shutting down. When I could see trouble coming I would try my best to find a way to stop it from exploding and when I couldn't I would leave to a friend's place so we could talk about it from there and try to fix it. Her behavior became worse. She was fired from her job, was caught committing health care fraud, lied about having cancer, lost her license for a DUI she hid from me and lied to me telling me it was for excessive speeding, her hidden drug use worsened and the financial, emotional and physical abuse worsened.

I had no choice but to plan my exit. I knew it would be bad when I left but I was also hoping to find a way to fix our relationship along the way. Soon after I left her on August 11 2025 she started with a protection order against me claiming I was a threat to her. It didn't bother me as I knew the truth and my friends and family did also from what they had witnessed. I had no intention of talking to her ever again so I complied with the order and waited for the opportunity to collect my things as our lease was expiring soon. Soon after she filed a complaint to the RCMP against me of assault, threats and firearms charges. I was shook by it at first but I grew up in the system and knew I just needed my day in court to prove the allegations false. The dates and claims were going to be easy to prove false. She immediately began an online campaign showing everyone we knew on social media my police documents, sending them to my friends and family and trying to get my world to turn against me. I remained quiet as I knew I had the support of my friends, family and community who knew the truth and I didn't want to participate in ugly behavior or be baited by her any longer.

When I went to provide my finger prints on Sept 29 2025 I was informed by the RCMP not to bother because they were not pursuing these claims and I was instructed to attend my first court date on October 9 2025 and have the charges formally dismissed. I immediately made a post on my social media of the news to let my friends and family know. Immediately she began an online campaign claiming the allegations were true and that the charges were dropped because she was leaving to another country. This campaign has not stopped, she has harassed and messaged my friends, family, business partners and associates to no end for months. She has posted and sent digitally altered images and claims of abuse against me. She has made claims she was accepted by a publisher and that she is writing a book about her false abusive relationship with me. She has used my past as a means to discredit me publicly and has rewritten my past to silence the truth. She has messaged me constantly for months though multiple email and social media accounts being abusive and threatening. I have not responded and I have provided these messages to the police.

I was approached by persons close to her after they found out she lied about the allegations and so much more. I was informed that months before I left Calina, her daughter and friend found "disturbing" digitally altered images on her laptop. Her daughters friend told his mother. They were pictures of Calina with bruising added to the images. Calina gave her laptop to her daughter before she left who found the images she had been altering in the computer and took it to Calina's father. Her family now knows the truth and I know now I was being set up long before I left her.

I am not innocent in the troubles of our relationship, I made mistakes, I got upset when things got to be too much, I have trouble managing multiple problems at once, I have trouble expressing when I feel I'm being treated unfairly but I have NEVER assaulted a woman and everyone who knows me, knows that. I began to learn my faults were being used against me. I now know I would be destabilized in arguments and undermined to be left in the wrong. I was told I had no right to a voice or opinion because of my wrongs, or told my thoughts and feelings were wrong or that I "think things that aren't true". I left with a wealth of knowledge of what I need to improve on and how to properly manage my emotional being and for that I am grateful.

I have tried my best to take this all in stride, I have not responded publicly to any of her posts or joined in on her disgusting behavior. I have survived a lot in my life and I can take a beating but the effects of this all are starting show. I am plagued with a feeling of injustice and unjust prosecution. I have recently learned that she has done this before to her first husband and her ex boyfriend. She is now with a man named Robert Sanderson who was wrongfully convicted of murder and served 20 years. That shows the lack of morals and humanity in this person. I have tried to find a way to legally right these wrongs but I have been met with some road blocks. I'm still trying and will not stop until Calina is held accountable for lying to the police again and again. Any assistance or advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you.

Posted Jan 25, 2026, 12:33 PM UTC

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