Why is it that, every time short man posts about his dating struggles, women in comments always blame him and his personality even though they don't know him?

For some reason if a man is short, it's normal to insult him on the internet even this app, to call him an incel. When short man does something bad, people will talk about height and assume he has Napoleonic complex.

I think women want to appear less shallow then men so that's why they gaslight men. Same thing when guy with small penis posts about his experience.

The only place where women were honest about preferences was Female Dating Strategy. Despite being often hateful, at least opinions over there seemed closer to what we see in real life.