55 [M4F] I don't want to change. So I'm here instead 😊

I think we can all agree that we all have issues in our marriage or we would not be here.  I recently had an epiphany.  As the subjects states, I don't want to change.  I don't want to fix anything.  I feel like my wife and I have both made choices that led us to where we are now.  The only way forward is to reassess and find a new path based on who we are today.

As for the reason I am here, I would like to be able to have meaningful conversations about my feelings and emotions.  It would be nice to be able to discuss this epiphany with a like minded person who can relate, or at least sympathize.  Someone who is genuinely sensitive to my feelings without taking it personally or getting defensive.

I don't want this to be all about me though.  On the contrary, I'm much happier helping someone else work through similar issues and have them reach their own realizations.  Along the way, it would be wonderful if a companionship or friendship developed.  I will be forever hopeful it leads to something more but I don't want to make any assumptions or add any pressure.

It doesn't have to be as deep and profound as this either.  I want to laugh, have fun, exchange witty banter, share some intimacy (clean, dirty, kinky, or all of the above).  I want to know about your day.  I want to share your happiness and your grief.  I want to give you the things you are currently missing.  After all, that is why we are all here.

Quick housekeeping.  I will never ask for photos.  I want more than just sexting.  Start as you mean to continue.  If you only write short responses, this is unlikely to work out.  Be prepared to pass a Turing test.  I'm joking.  Maybe I'm not.  Finally, I defer to the lady to set the tone and pace of the conversation.

I hope something about this post resonates with you and you feel compelled to answer.  I feel confident in saying you will not be disappointed.  To prove you made it this far, please tell me if you have long hair or short hair.  It's a thing.  I'll gladly explain if you are interested 😉