Guy I was seeing tried to have sex with me, without a condom.

I’m just posting this to get it off my chest...and I wasn’t sure where to post it.

weve been together for under 2 months but it’s not official. I’ve been tested, all clear and he hasn’t been tested yet.

I can’t take Prep because it messes with my stomach and he doesn’t see the point in taking Prep (yes, red flag)

Weve always used condoms. but last week he didn’t want to, I told him why and he told me I was being paranoid.

Were in bed, naked. he asked and I said no. He then places it on my Area and applies pressure, I say no and he carries on, I reach down and pull it away and he does the same thing, I tell him to stop, reach down again but this time he slaps my hand out of the way and tells me to stop and applies even more pressure. I’ve pushed him off me, got dressed and went home without saying a word to him.

he messed me lastnight asking what’s wrong and I tell him why, and how I feel, and do you wanna know his words?

“That’s now how it happened and you know it. I am now sick and angry of why you’ve said and how you’ve painted me as a monster“
The thing is, if he had just said sorry and took accountability for it, I would have moved on and possibly worked on any type of relationship with him.