30 [F4M] #NewZealand #Online - Nerdy/alternative/creative chick on the lookout for new friends around my age!

F4M New Zealand / Online

Heya, I'm a 30 year old chick from New Zealand. My local area in particular is known for being difficult when it comes to meeting new people or dating, so I'm struggling in both those areas. I'm not looking for a LDR, so if you're seeing this from overseas, I'll only be down for friendship - just getting that out of the way.

I like most alt/heavier music, but can also get into some EDM stuff, and recently started getting into hardstyle. I collect books faster than I can read them. I'm working on writing my own. I watch f1 pretty intensely and can't wait for the new season. I love discussing ideas and giving advice when asked for.

I'm not exactly a goth mommy, more like a wannabe alt baddie lol. Still exploring my style, honestly. I'm definitely drawn to others who are also a bit alt, but that's not a strict requirement to come chat with me.

I'm mostly looking for people that are a bit silly, witty, tastefully flirty, and generally just fun to banter with. If you can switch modes into more serious/deep/philosophical talks, even better!

Posted Jan 27, 2026, 11:29 AM UTC · locked

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