Anyone found PM tools that actually work for big capital projects?

I’m curious if anyone else here has run into this. For those of us working on large capital projects (infrastructure, construction, energy, big industrial stuff), have you found any modern PM tools that actually fit the way these projects are run?

I keep finding that most tools fall into two buckets:

1. clearly aimed at software teams, or
2. supposedly for capital projects but end up being overly heavy, slow, expensive, or just painful to use.

A simple example is action management. There are loads of tools out there (Planner, Monday, Jira, ADO, etc), but they always seem to struggle once you add real‑world project complexity — like having hundreds of stakeholders, a mix of office and site folks, formal approval flows, links to WBS/P6 schedules, contract-driven processes, etc.

And the terminology mismatch doesn’t help either. Half the tools want you to talk about “features” and “sprints” , and most people on big capex projects roll their eyes when they hear those…

Has anyone actually found something that works better for this world?
Or even just come across the same issues?