Muslims indirectly takfiring muslims by saying we were never muslim

As an ex-muslim, you may have often heard from muslims this that you never were a muslim. Often due to telling your experiences, like being groomed into the religion since birth or forced to practice things you didn’t want to, despite believing in Allah and the Quran.

If we go by their logic, then every muslim today who were forced into being muslim and still are due to the indoctrination many muslims today go through, are not real muslims. Essentially takfiring them.