where do I find actual good art?

istg rule34 is horrible for finding art. I just want to find some hot yaoi and yuri. How come if I see any tied up or dominant art elsewhere, it’s normal and hot, but if i try to find similar imgs on rule i immediately get flashbanged by hardcore bondage bdsm. Brother ughhh ewww. Just because I searched for tied up stuff, does not mean I want to see actual rape and kidnapping porn. I just want hot yaoi. I wanna see art made with love and passion, not deviantart smut. Where do I find good stuff?