epidural vs natural

okay so im a new soon to be ftm and i keep seeing people on other social media almost try to coerce other moms into getting the epidural. i find it so weird. all im constantly seeing is "you dont get an award for wanting to go natural." like.. okay..? you dont get an award for getting the epidural either lol?

im saying all this because i do plan on going natural and its just so annoying and kind of discouraging to see comments like "girl just get the epidural", or "youll change your mind during active labor."

i just feel like everyone should mind their own like why does my own birth plan bother anyone else yk? its just stupid 😭