25 [M4F] #NYC #NJ Obedient Boy looking for someone to dedicate myself to

NSFWM4F

Hey there,

For a long time now I’ve known that a relationship involving power dynamics is what I crave. Being able to dedicate myself towards someone and having that special connection feels right for me. The headspace, the trust, and the reversal of roles are all something that I prioritize.

**About me:**

I enjoy baking (most recently I made cinnamon buns), and would definitely love to bake for you!

I also play quite a few board games and am always wanting to learn something new (right now that would be playing the piano and writing). I would consider myself an optimistic pragmatist and I would like to think I am a kind, thoughtful person with lots of energy to give.

Physically, I am 5’10”, 145 lbs. I am white with brown hair and blue eyes. Personally, I am open to all types of partners in terms of physical appearance as personality is what I consider paramount. Though, please be of legal age and no older than your 40’s.

**Kinks:**

Using labels, I would say my primary archetype is a pleasure bottom. I am the type of person who gets a lot pleasure from giving a lot of pleasure. In terms of dynamics, I am open to many types both hardcore and gentle. Though, my ideal would be a mix of both. I take pride in my obedience, and I would not classify myself as a brat. Some of my favorite kinks include full body worship, acts of service, praise, humiliation, tease and denial, bondage, pain, role reversal, pet play, and much more. I’d love to hear yours, and if you have any that I didn’t mention here. My hard limits are scat, blood, findom, blackmail, and permanent modifications.

**What I am looking for:**

Please be in the NYC metro area. I personally appreciate people who are articulate and interesting to talk to. I love picking people’s brains and learning about new world views, and appreciate a partner who is also inquisitive. I am the type of person to prefer to take things slow and am not looking to jump right into kinky play. Personal compatibility is the most important thing to me first and foremost.

If you are interested, send me a Reddit chat. Please include the title and artist of a song you have on repeat right now somewhere in your opening message so I know you have read everything (if you aren’t a big music listener, feel free to replace music with whatever creative medium you engage with the most).

Thanks so much for reading!

Posted Jan 27, 2026, 1:44 PM UTC

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