Pregnant ladies- What is out stance on this !?

I come to social media and see two types of opinions:

1. Pregnant woman complaining that other moms or women didnt warn us enough about every change of pregnancy and wishes they had more resources to the details and all symptoms.

2. Pregnant woman being scared and disliking when someone shares their traumatic birth stories or anything scary about pregnancy in general. Asking them to stop bcz its a personal experience for everyone and they dont wanna discuss negative things bcz of anxiety triggers

Both are valid . Im just curious that both are contradictory to a certain extent and either one of these is going to be a choice. U either choose to be informed or not based on personal preference.

As a pregnant woman, which option do u prefer ?