Anyone who moved out of unr in their late teens can’t recognise the city anymore?

I’ve been facing dilemma since a while, I moved out of unr few years back and now in my 20s, whenever I go back to meet some friends or relatives, I realise that I can’t recognise the city anymore. Things feel new, you understand the dialect, you know how things work, but you realise you’re not a part of it anymore. It’s a weird feeling, because I love the city. The place I’ll always call home, no matter where I go.

But, it feels distant.