37[M4F]EST- How can we chat all day if we don’t start in the morning?!

Seems this experiment isn’t working… but I’m a glutton for punishment. I admit it, I’ve been posting like crazy. It’s a numbers game. Maybe people think I’m a bot, maybe I’m just not relatable, maybe it’s coming off a little desperate? Just looking for a good match. Can you blame me for trying over and over and over… so here it goes again…

I’m looking exclusively for EST/CST since any larger time gaps seem to never work out or catch on!

I guess you could say I’ve been “chasing the dragon” after a long online affair ended after 8 months with a ghosting. No use crying over it anymore, everyone has their reasons for not seeing something like this through. Once you realize the risk is always there of losing someone you meet in this little sect of the internet and accept it for what it is, it’s a lot easier to just live in the moment I feel.

So here I am again. A hard working dad of a 17 month old. Im currently unemployed and enjoying every second. I also “manage” the home. I do the bills, the cooking, the cleaning and the planning. Safe to say that life be life-ing. This is my place to be selfish. We deserve it. At least that’s what I’m telling myself! We are all lacking something at home and life is too short to dwell or feel guilty for finding a little something something. No judgement here on my end, this will be our safe little bubble of happy. I’m an open book and love sharing (maybe even over sharing) so someone who understands that reciprocating that energy is a huge factor in making this all work would be greatly appreciated.

I should be selfish again and tell you, if you’restill reading, that I’m not exactly here for a slow burn. Don’t get me wrong, I want to establish a base line of trust and communication and can hold a convo with the best of them but if you’re looking for a slower burn, I have to say that usually fizzles fast on my end. Spice is important, let’s not mince words. So is being silly and getting deep with one another, it makes the spicy extra fiery after all.

I could keep rambling but here some more I’ll add to wrap this up:

Things I’m into- autumn in general, not so much this winter BS, yes I’m a huge football guy. Crosswords and sudoku, throw in Wordle daily. Trivia and Jeopardy. Falling behind on new music and reading so don’t judge but enjoy the occasional smut not gonna lie. Into grabbing more than a handful and using swearing as a second language.

Things I’m not into- Trump/MAGA. Religious people. Meanies in general. Slow workers. One word responders. Other than that I’m pretty easy going!

Im flexible and respectful of schedules and dealing with life. I prefer those who have kids and can relate to the daily headaches of parenting!

Im 6 foot, red hair with a trimmed beard. Blue eyes and a slight dad bod. I love to send voice, pics, jump on calls and video calls when there’s a good connection. I do all that on Telegram only! I take great pride in my OPSEC.

Come drop a hi and a first message and we can start something great in between all the chaos in our lives!