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TasersHurt

31 [M4F] Anywhere; Like Quasimodo, I ring the bells.

Good morning,

I'm currently at work and am thinking about how connections are like the pealing of a bell. When they start, they're loud, clear, beautiful, but when un-tended, time kills their momentum and they fade into quiet.

I'm looking for the kind of connection(s) that ring loudly, that shatter the air like lightning strikes and thunder claps. That are tended like loved gardens, like bonsais, like flower bushes in the spring.

I'm male and 31, currently living Texas, but have spent the majority of my life on the east coast. I'm a lover of literature, poetry, art, photography, animals, nature, tattoos, and trying to balance the depression and anxiety of the world with the beautiful and a/symmetry of everything else.

I have tons of time to talk during the day, and am willing to have conversations about pretty much anything, but my goal is long term, meaningful connection.

I have a Discord and am happy to move there if we end up hitting it off, but all that I ask is that you write well and with intention. Trying to engage with people who reply with singular words feels like pulling my own teeth and I'm not that much of a masochist.

But anyway, send me a message. I'll be waiting.

Posted Jan 27, 2026, 1:48 PM UTC

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