I'm sorry too

Please just accept the fact that you hurt them, tore everything down, and then ran away. I can't argue with a wall. I am not innocent and never claimed to be. I wanted to help him just as much as he wanted to help me. Do you want me to share why on a public platform? It's not twisting a narrative if it's the truth. Abuse deserves to be called out just as much as everything else. You know what you are doing is wrong.

If you paint me as a promiscuous bitch, it garners more sympathy, and you don't feel bad for staying. If my husband uses this situation to justify his abuse over the last 8 years it makes everything he did okay as well. A sin is a sin. Remember that. I am not holier than thou or morally superior. I am sharing my side of the story. You are choosing to do the same. Not everything that I share has to do with you, but the way you respond is very telling. You don't carry yourself with the same maturity and integrity that you so broadly proclaim.

I'm sorry that you are in so much pain. It doesn't have to be this way. You can rebuild and move forward. Telling me to go fuck myself and blaming me for the issues within your relationship won't fix anything.