Identity crisis - marriage

Hello,

I write this in full vulnerability.

Personally, i dealt with identity crisis for over 4 years. I overcame reliving that life, but truthfully the lord helped me bury it when I was baptized. I dealt with constant insecurity, being unsure in life and in my relationship, and trying to figure out what makes me happy.

From the conversations I’m having with my fiancé, she is dealing with it extremely. We’re human I’m trying to do my best with understanding and supporting but feel like I’m falling short.

Long story short I want to help guide her through love and patience. I’d love to assist figuring out what she enjoys, help slow life down and stop trying to figure out her whole life at once, and guide her through a marriage and family.

Lastly, as mentioned I was baptized. She believes god will put on her heart when it’s time, which I support. I’ve been praying for her healing but I feel like god is calling my heart to love on her and walk her through this.

On the other side, I believe since I was able to overcome years of trauma, even childhood trauma causing it. I believe enemy realized he has no home so he came after my partner.

Thank you in advance for your support and advice