My older brother is so lazy

He is 17 and he can barely get dressed in the morning, my grandma comes down from her house every morning to help him get ready for school on time and every morning I feel like we are cutting it close because he is so slow.

Yesterday he ran around the house angrily because he couldn’t find a shirt which I know he had some in his closet, he then proceeded to get mad and say that our mom was an “inconsiderate bum” for not leaving him a shirt to wear even though our mom leaves an hour earlier than us so she can get to work on time, I told him that she didn’t know he needed one and it wasn’t her fault he couldn’t find it and my grandma just shushed me and accused me of fighting with him for some reason.

It’s not just in the morning, it’s literally everywhere every day and it’s so annoying. My brother does have autism and ADHD so I can give him a bit of forgiveness but at the same time he has proven that he can do shit on his own, he just acts useless and me or one of my family members ends up doing whatever needs to be done.

There is a lot more I could say about him but I can’t because this post is already like four paragraphs and I don’t want to write more. I do love him despite him being lazy, I just want him to be a little more self sufficient and do a bit more work.

TLDR: my older brother is incredibly lazy, kinda useless and I find it annoying