I (27f) am talking to a guy (26m) who wants to be my boyfriend. We talk all the time, but he isn’t attracted to my body. Has anyone experienced this and what was the outcome?

We are long distance and have been talking for just over 6 months. We have met up in person 4 times for about a week each and we talk every day for hours. He really does seem like he likes me. And he always says he is ready for us to be exclusive even if we don’t live near each other. And he is consistently talking about moving to my city. (It is a nice city though and he does want to move).

Overall it seems like he likes me but there are a few concerns. We met as a hookup as I was traveling for work. And he was very clear about his physical type in women which is pretty much the opposite of how I look. Like he is into tall women and in short and big boobs and i have average boobs. He talks about it less now, but I know for a fact that that’s what he is into. He showed me his ex wife for example and she is very pretty.

The boobs thing he does think I can get plastic surgery to fix it and he wants me to get a boob job and a bbl which I told him early on I was ok with, but he wants me to go very extreme which I’m not ok with. When I bring up my concerns he says that he would take me as I am because looks aren’t thaaaat important to him but we have had discussions about how looks are more important to men and how men couldn’t really be satisfied with an ugly partner.

It’s just really difficult because we do like each other, but I don’t want to constantly feel like I’m disappointing him.

Overall does anyone have experience with being the ugly partner or having an ugly partner and how did it work?

Also as a side note we don’t have sex cuz I’m a virgin but I have blown him many times. And I’m cool if he watches porn during and he really likes blowjobs so he told me that’s enough for him sexually even if I never want sex. So sex isn’t really an issue