Confused as hell (M22 , F20) Situationship pr Relationship

So I met a girl (20F) on Hinge last September. We exchanged WhatsApp and started talking. Kaafi deep baatein hui, sab kuch share hota tha. Around one month later we decided to meet, and by then attachment + attraction dono clear ho chuki thi.

We met regularly till December. Last time December me mile the, went on a 2-day trip. Spent nights together every time (yes, we did it countless times). Even now, we talk endlessly — no hesitation, we share everything, daily photos, random updates, sab kuch.

Now she says she doesn’t feel the same anymore, feelings nahi hai, but she’s still attached, attracted, and even addicted. She says she wants to be alone.

I told her clearly: “Agar breakup karna hai toh tu apne side se karle, just leave me. Block me everywhere, I won’t say anything.”

But she just can’t do it.

Main 1–2 baar bina bataye milne gaya, and she still met me. We spent time like normal. Ex ka koi scene nahi hai , because she thought her ex loved her but later her ex texted me, abused her, talked shit — tab usko realize hua ki woh sab fake tha.

Problem yeh hai:

Woh mujhe chhod nahi rahi, aur jab main chhodna chahta hoon toh woh bhi karne nahi deti. Pehle bolegi “theek hai jao”, phir thodi der me wapas baat ho jaati hai.

She also says that with me she can never control herself alone, she feels very safe and comfortable, and that’s why she can’t stay away.

Toh mujhe genuinely lagta hai feelings ka issue nahi hai, bas woh accept nahi kar rahi ki she still has them.

Koi is gareeb ki madad karo bhai, samajh nahi aa raha chal kya raha hai 🙏😭🥀

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TL;DR

Met a girl on Hinge, got emotionally + physically involved. Now she says feelings nahi hai but still attached, attracted and addicted. Wants to be alone but also can’t leave me, and doesn’t let me leave either. We keep meeting, talking, and acting like a couple. Feels like she still has feelings but refuses to admit it. I’m stuck in a loop and confused af.(used chat gpt to refine the body)