Would you marry a man who used to have issues with his gaze ?

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This is for the sisters but it’s a group discussion.

Would you marry a brother who used to have issues lowering his gaze.

A bit about myself, when I was a young child I was exposed to a LOT of images and content no one should ever be exposed to. It become very normal for me to see inappropriate things. I learned how bad this all was when I was 13-14. Since then I’ve made efforts to start and I’ve successfully stopped now that I’m 26 years old.

However …

I do think it’s changed me as a person. I’m overall more used to inappropriate material. I’ll lower my gaze and I won’t seek it out but I do think it’s changed me as a person. Sometimes I don’t notice something like an ad around me is wrong until it’s already started and I’m embarrassed because for me it’s kinda normal.

Does any of this make sense? I think I’ve been exposed to so much I kinda need to be with someone who isn’t super sheltered because I’ve just seen it all.

Pls lmk your thoughts.

Posted Jan 30, 2026, 5:05 AM UTC

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