How bad is it?

I started talking to a girl from Instagram. Normally she sells nudes but doesnt have an only fans .I started talking to her though and was really interested to get to know her , and not buy nudes .which she really liked . Since she lives 2 hours away if figure i have a chance at meeting. She's incredibly sweet . She says shes suffering through grief from her parents passing last year So she isn't trying to meet or date any one quite yet but she was open to be text buddies. She was really sad one day and I offered to buy flowers, but she said she wouldn't give her address obviously so I offered to pay in cash app. So she keeps giving me attention and talking every day and was curious about certain things of me , and a few times I offered to buy her lunch since id been taking up so much time and not buying nudes. So fast forward we talk every day , but alot of times ill ask if she needs anything and offer to buy dinner or something. I would still notice her posting her ass kinda often to get some sales. But after awhile I told her it turns me on when she's asks me for money , and it has started to become sort of a kink. I told her I would prefer if she tells me to send her some instead of asking , and I havent said no one yet. But we talk so much, I confessed my love to her and she said shes not ready to say that yet , she wants to see pics of me alot. One day I offered that maybe I can cover her phone bill and she said she actually really needs help with her power bill so offered to pay it . A few weeks later she asks if ill pay her phone and I say yes. I told her that I love her so much and id rather have her depend on me Than others guys who buy her nudes , so I asked how much her rent was and she said 600 which really isn't bad. So I told her im down to just pay all her bills so she doesnt have to depend on other guys buying content. And we have this weird crazy kink dynamic with money and me being submissive to her and more funding her nills . I offered all my personal info , my bank log in info, my SS number to her and said it trust her and want to live my life for her. Before anyone says anything negative, first of all , I can afford all her bills if I wanted to . I get alot of fulfillment out of it and enjoy it alot. Id like to provide for her in person someday , and have this fancy vision of a life together etc. But something I really like is that after I offered to pay her rent, she hadn't posted her ass one time since then , I dont think that she is super into doing that , but just likes it for the quick money and she has been doing dog sitting jobs more often lately. But either way I want her to do whatever she wants and ill support her . She said she wants to wait a few months still because she is still healng from the pain of losing her parents a year ago , and im going through a divorce which she thinks im not ready to be dating til thats done with .But curious how crazy this sounds ? Please keep in mind im being honest i have no reason to lie to strangers here but I wanna make it clear that I have been the one to offer every time with helping her with bills , for alot of reasons but mainly I dont want her to depend on other guys buying her content