WIBTA if I broke up with my very serious bf because he won’t go down on me?

I have herpes, I disclosed before intimacy.

First time we were intimate he went down on me.

Then when we started the relationship he still went down on me. A couple of months in he stopped and when I brought it up he said he worries.

I totally understand, and I won’t make him, I respect it if that’s what he wants and if he doesn’t feel safe.

But does that mean I have to accept to not receiving it for the rest of my life?

I can also change my mind?

Is it too much to want to end it due to that? I mean there are other things that are not so good, and other that are good.

I guess I don’t like the idea that he sees me as dirty?

Or unsafe.

And I get it, like I said, but… Reddit, WIBTA?