Cuckquean more of a taboo than cuckolding

For context we have been in a relationship for a really long time and are experimenting with our sexuality and cuckquean kinks.

So far reddit has not be any help for us in finding unicorn so we tried dating platform in every way possible (A couple account, and individual account) though it is comparatively easily to meet a F to explore Bicuriousity, but when it's a about Cuckqueaning and Voyeurism it's all sort of judgemental statements.

On the contrary when the roles are switched all of a sudden it is no judgements when it comes to exploring kinks.

That reality is really frustrating